Posted by Crosswalk Teen Center | The County Journal | Charlotte, MI | February 8, 2020
The following is a poem from one of the participants at Charlotte's Crosswalk Teen Center. Deanna Brasseur is a senior and has already had some of her work published. Crosswalk is a free afterschool program for teens, grades 7-12, focusing on providing educational support, community connections, everyday life, and expressive arts. It is located at 103 W Lawrence in downtown Charlotte. Find out more information at crosswalkteencenter.org or the "Crosswalk Teen Center" Facebook page.
I Gave You My Best.
By Deanna Brasseur
I love you with a love that no one taught me how
to hold onto. I had no role model for healthy
relationships or consistency in marriages from the
generation who claims they are so much better than the
one I am living in now.
I love you with a love that my hands don't know
how to latch onto because I have latched onto so many
things like the fleeting episodes of games me and my
father used to play every other weekend. I latched onto
things like the idea of a mother who would hold me
back when I reached out for her hand.
I love you with a love that I have yet to
understand because I have never seen love survive
through the trenches of dishonesty or disrespect, much
less distance. I have only heard myths and fairytales
where love like this dances through the strands of
weeping willow trees and magic.
I love you with a love that the people I know
have only dreamed of. As my housewife mother was told
she was bad at her job by my stepdad who laid hands on
me harder than the metal scraps he wrapped his bare
knuckles around daily. It was during these times that my
mother dreamed of a man who would call her beautiful
at every waking moment and she dreamed of a man who
could hold her with not only his arms but his words. My
father, he dreamt that a woman would comfort him the
same way the lips of a brown beer bottle always knew
how to. He dreamt that a woman knew more than how
to walk out of his life quicker than she said hello on the
day they met.
I love you with a love that is a miracle in my
family. Something we’ve only seen in the pages of open
books. This feeling is something I never knew existed in
the real world. I left you and I hurt you and I bruised you
because I grew up thinking that love was limited to
scars and addiction. I never knew how to love you this
deep. Deep has always meant pain to me. I wasn't aware
that there was any other definition. I taught myself that
love needed to be found everywhere. My heart was a
desert in need of water and the love was the water that
could keep me moving for one more day and I searched
for it. In all the wrong men. I could feel every word
creeping into my ears as I heard a new lie from a
different person. Eventually, dishonesty blossomed into
just another synonym for love.
I grew up searching for a love that my parents
had defined in their own books, their own mistakes,
their own lives. And I didn't know how to do anything
but follow blindly, hoping that I wasn't being led astray.
I love you with a love that my parents did not
define for me because they never had the privilege of
feeling this themselves. Our love would have been a
blank page in their book, yet I have managed to fill page
upon page about how what's left of my soul aches to
belong to you because I know that you'll take care of it.
When I fell in love with you, you wrote me a new
book. You showed me how love is supposed to be. Your
book says nothing about empty promises that keep you
awake at night or broken glass that is used as a short
term mask. I still don't know how to love you right, but I
do love you completely. And I am trying.
The Crosswalk Studio has become the hub of creative minds. Each day, teens race to Crosswalk so they can start working on their media projects. These teens learn to use music creation software, video production, and musical instruments. They use these skills to create their own video blogs in The Studio, where they add commentary to video games or share their thoughts on a variety of subjects. The opportunity to create unique production projects in the Crosswalk Studio opens the door to opportunities ranging from an engaging hobby to a career. Crosswalk loves providing opportunities for teens to explore their creativity and launch into new and exciting projects! Big thanks to the Charlotte Rotary for helping to purchase new technology for the Crosswalk Studio!
Posted by Travis Silvas | The County Journal | Charlotte, MI
It may be a surprise to some to learn that both the state and national Main Street organizations identified arts and culture as a key strategy to downtown Charlotte’s revitalization efforts. Through extensive research, both organizations concluded the arts and culture have a big presence in Charlotte.
But, how many people are aware of all of the talent in the area?
A group of local community members, including representatives from CharlotteRising, CanDo!, Windwalker Underground Gallery, and Charlotte High School students have formed to show that art really is at the heart of downtown Charlotte.